I am writing this blog at the end of what is typically the most unhappiest month of the whole year. Holiday festivities are over, sales are low, it's cold, there is ice, snow, polar vortexes, delayed and cancelled events due to unfavorable weather. My sandals and sundresses sit lonely in the closet taunting me with thoughts of warmer weather. Yet, despite a rough start to the new year, and some really cold weather, I have had some time recently to reflex on what an awesome month this really was. I had a chance to get together with a good artist friend to chat about art, life, business, marriage, etc.... I had the chance to get together with a small group of artists in the area to share ideas and swap supplies. I completed a two day training to become a Hoopnotica Certified Instructor and had the chance to connect with a really fun group of people. I attended a bellydance student performance salon, where dancers with all different personal styles, and ability levels, performed a solo using a mix of improvisation and choreography. At all of these events I was struck by what an amazing sense of fellowship and joy there is in finding other people that share your passion. People who spend time doing things that they love tend to be pretty happy, so it makes sense I am not around too many downers. We all have known a few downers at some point. Those people who seem to thrive on being miserable, complaining, turning every positive into a negative, and constantly being stressed out about something. They are people to avoid since they always seem intent on bringing others into their misery. I feel like just handing them a hula hoop and saying "here, try this, it will make you feel better!". This month has made me realize how lucky I am to have so many wonderful people in my life, from a phenomenal dance and hooping community, to my growing community of art friends, and to my close friends and family, especially my husband, who always looks on the bright side. All of them have made this dismal month full of hope and joy, and for that, I am very grateful. I has inspired my hoop weekend to upcycle bangles using wire, sari fabric, vintage buttons, and various found objects. Each one is unique and has it's own beauty, just like every person has their own joy to share. So go find out what yours is, and share it with others!
