Friday, April 27, 2012

Mae West

     I very often use pictures of women from bygone eras in some of my collage jewelry designs.  I am especially attracted to images of women I imagine to be somewhat more rebellious against the societal restraints that were present at the time. I happened to have a great sheet of images from artchix studio and recognized one as the famous actress Mae West.  I admit, I didn't know a great deal about her.  I somehow remember my one of my parents telling about her and one of her famous lines "why don't you come on up and see my some" (they left off the last bit of that line "when I've got nothing on but the radio").  A little more research on her turned up some interesting tidbits, which made me love her all the more.  I found out she was actually jailed (briefly) for her first play (she was a playwright as well as an actress), which she boldly titled "Sex".  She was an advocate for gay rights before people even knew what gay rights was.  She began her movie acting career as a sultry sex kitten at the ripe old age of 38 (that was, and probably still is, considered over-the-hill for a Hollywood bombshell).  If I could choose a single word that I think describes her it would be: unapologetic.
   I find that I admire the unapologetic Mae West because she was true to herself and didn't care what others thought about her.  She was who she was and you could take her or leave her.  I often think I (and probably many others) need a little of Ms. West's spirit in our lives.  I know for myself, I am about as far from unapologetic as you can get.  I have caught myself apologizing to someone when they bump into me, as if I have some kind of compulsive need to beg forgiveness for having the audacity to take up space.  I made this necklace in honor of the great actress, and as a reminder to whoever wears it, to lighten up a little on yourself.  You are who you are and don't apologize for it.  Life is too short to worry so much about what others think because as Mae West said "you only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough".

Monday, April 16, 2012

Behold the Power of Shoes

     Truth be told, I'm not a big fashionista.  It's not that I don't like glamorous and fashionable clothes I just have other things to spend my time and money on.  A couple new pairs of jeans could be the cost of some dance workshops I want to take or art supplies I need.  Everyone has priorities, right? I get most of my clothes from our local goodwill store.  This includes shoes (foot germs, bah!).  Every once in a while though, I do get the urge to splurge.  This usually happens around my birthday.  This year was no different, and I decided to hit up our local TJ maxx.  While I was shopping for a new bathing suit (summer's coming!) and some other clothes that might make me somewhat in fashion for a change, I started to notice my shoes.  I realized with growing dismay that the particular pair of clunkers I was wearing that day had been with me since my college years, and looked their age.  Why not head next door to DSW, "just to look"?  Of course, I headed directly to the back of the store where the clearance shoes live.  It was there that I spotted them, the coolest pair of boots ever.  They were perfect!  The price: 129.99 plus an additional 40% off.  The math came up in my head as somewhere near the ballpark of $70-80.  Way more than I was planning to spend on new shoes.  So, I did what any logical girl would do.  I marched up to the counter with my glorious new boots and didn't look back.
     When I saw this single little shoe earring, I knew it had to become part of a special piece of jewelry.  Women have always loved shoes.  They are powerful accessories.  It sounds shallow, but when I wear my beloved boots, I feel more confident, powerful, glamorous, and sexy.  Every girl deserves the chance to splurge on a pair of shoes that she just loves.  There is a little glamour girl in all of us.